Sometimes building an identity can be like building a house without a blueprint. In my case, it was like the lumber was dumped on my lot before I even had time to think about if I wanted a one story ranch or a two story bungalow, let alone tile or carpet. Thank goodness my parents had given me a good strong foundation to build on.
I had married young and had two precious children before I seriously considered life’s many options. It was not long before I realized that the lumber pile I had