...Forsaking All Others...

[Jenifer Madson]

When is financial infidelity a good idea? How about never? Now before you go looking for exceptions to this bold assertion, let me clarify what I mean--and don't mean--by the term.

Financial infidelity doesn't mean the odd occasion where you neglect to inform your partner of a purchase. What it means is intentionally sneaking around, lying about, and avoiding what concerns you financially. In short, it includes any behavior that is unfaithful to the principles with money to which you have jointly committed. And it's never a good idea.

What brings about this particular brand of disloyalty? I would guess that it has to do with a couples inability or unwillingness to discuss their money circumstances honestly and regularly, with minds open to suggestion and flexible to change.

Take A Minute:
Are you each being faithful to the financial goals you've established?

Make A Minute:
Identify any behavior with money that is in opposition to your goals, and commit to replacing it with that which honors your commitments.

While it's not always easy, the secret to a strong, faithful financial relationship with each other is simple: consistently address your financial choices with an eye to whether they are supporting your collective goals. You'll love the freedom that comes with keeping your money vows!